Life & Sikh Values · Stage 5 of 7

Work & Adult Life

Earning honestly, sharing freely and remembering the Divine — the householder's path.

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What Sikh teachings say

Sikhi is a householder's path. Rather than leaving the world, a Sikh is asked to live fully within it — working, raising a family, serving the community — while keeping the Divine in mind. Traditional teaching summarises this in three pillars: Naam Japna (remembering the Divine), Kirat Karni (earning an honest living) and Vand Chhakna (sharing what one has).

Gurbani praises the person who works for what they eat and gives some of it away with their own hand. It also warns that taking what rightfully belongs to another is deeply wrong. In modern terms this touches everything from fair pricing and honest accounts to how we treat employees, colleagues and customers. Work done honestly, with care, is itself a form of devotion.

Many Sikhs practise dasvandh — setting aside a tenth of their earnings, or of their time, for the good of others and the community. It is a widely valued tradition rather than a fee, and each person gives according to their situation. Seva, Sangat and daily remembrance help keep work and wealth in their proper place.

The practice — Kirat Karni, Vand Chhakna, Naam Japna

There is no special ceremony for adult working life. The Sikh practice is a daily rhythm: beginning the day with Nitnem and remembrance, working honestly, sharing with those in need, and ending the day with Rehras Sahib and Kirtan Sohila.

Many Sikhs offer an Ardas before starting a new job, business or home, and give thanks with Karah Prashad afterwards. Such an Ardas is a way of placing effort before the Guru, not a ritual that guarantees success.

Seva — in the langar, in the community, or in quiet personal ways — balances the pressures of work. Giving time and skill freely reminds us that everything we have is a gift, and that others share in it.

What the Sikh Rehat Maryada says

The Sikh Rehat Maryada is the Panth’s code of conduct, published by the SGPC. Points below summarise it in plain language; consult the official text for exact wording.

  • The Sikh Rehat Maryada asks a Sikh to live by honest work and to share with others, especially those in need.
  • It sets out daily remembrance through Nitnem — morning, evening and night Banis — alongside ordinary working life.
  • It asks Sikhs not to use tobacco or other intoxicants.
  • It asks Sikhs to take part in the life of the Sangat and to do seva.

Regional & family customs

These practices vary by region and family. They are not religious requirements — families may follow, adapt or set them aside.

  • Giving dasvandh as a tenth of income — a widely valued Sikh tradition; how and where it is given varies from person to person.
  • Holding an Ardas or Sukhmani Sahib path when opening a business or moving into a new home — a devotional choice many families make.
  • Sponsoring langar on special occasions such as a promotion, birthday or anniversary — a family custom.
  • Keeping a small area at home for Gurbani or a Gutka Sahib — varies by family and must be done with respect.

What families can do

  1. Review your work honestly: are your prices, claims and records fair to everyone involved?
  2. Decide as a household how you will practise dasvandh — money, time or skills — and review it once a year.
  3. Treat everyone at work with the same respect, regardless of rank, caste, gender or background.
  4. Protect a small daily time for Gurbani, even on busy days — for example listening during a commute.
  5. Give some time to seva each month, at a Gurdwara or in your wider community.
  6. Talk openly with family about money, so that wealth serves the household rather than driving it.

Relevant Gurbani

Meaning Transliteration
Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji · Ang 1245 · Sarang ki Vaar, Salok · Raag Sarang · Guru Nanak Dev Ji
Verified · BaniDB

ਘਾਲਿ ਖਾਇ ਕਿਛੁ ਹਥਹੁ ਦੇਇ ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਹੁ ਪਛਾਣਹਿ ਸੇਇ ॥੧॥

Ghaal khaae kichh hathahu dee. Naanak raahu pachhaaneh se.

Meaning · GurVichaar explanation, not a scholarly translation

One who works for what they eat, and gives some of it away with their own hand — says Nanak, such a person recognises the true path.

ਜੋ ਮਿਹਨਤ ਕਰਕੇ ਖਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ, ਅਤੇ ਉਸ ਵਿੱਚੋਂ ਕੁਝ ਆਪਣੇ ਹੱਥੀਂ ਦਾਨ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ — ਨਾਨਕ ਆਖਦੇ ਹਨ, ਅਜਿਹਾ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਸੱਚਾ ਰਾਹ ਪਛਾਣਦਾ ਹੈ।

The heart of Kirat Karni and Vand Chhakna: earning honestly and giving with your own hand.

Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji · Ang 141 · Majh ki Vaar, Salok · Raag Majh · Guru Nanak Dev Ji
Verified · BaniDB

ਹਕੁ ਪਰਾਇਆ ਨਾਨਕਾ ਉਸੁ ਸੂਅਰ ਉਸੁ ਗਾਇ ॥

Hak paraaiaa naanakaa us sooar us gaae.

Meaning · GurVichaar explanation, not a scholarly translation

To take what rightfully belongs to another is as forbidden as the most forbidden food is to a Muslim or a Hindu.

ਕਿਸੇ ਹੋਰ ਦਾ ਹੱਕ ਖੋਹਣਾ ਓਨਾ ਹੀ ਵਰਜਿਤ ਹੈ ਜਿੰਨਾ ਇੱਕ ਮੁਸਲਮਾਨ ਜਾਂ ਹਿੰਦੂ ਲਈ ਸਭ ਤੋਂ ਵਰਜਿਤ ਭੋਜਨ।

A strong warning against taking what rightfully belongs to others — central to ethics at work.

Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji · Ang 26 · Raag Siri Raag · Guru Nanak Dev Ji
Verified · BaniDB

ਵਿਚਿ ਦੁਨੀਆ ਸੇਵ ਕਮਾਈਐ ॥ ਤਾ ਦਰਗਹ ਬੈਸਣੁ ਪਾਈਐ ॥

Vich duneeaa sev kamaaeeai. Taa daragah baisan paaeeai.

Meaning · GurVichaar explanation, not a scholarly translation

Practise selfless service here, in the midst of the world — that is how one finds a place of honour in the Divine court.

ਇੱਥੇ, ਦੁਨੀਆ ਦੇ ਵਿਚਕਾਰ ਰਹਿ ਕੇ ਨਿਸ਼ਕਾਮ ਸੇਵਾ ਕਰੋ — ਇਸੇ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਰੱਬੀ ਦਰਗਾਹ ਵਿੱਚ ਆਦਰ ਵਾਲੀ ਥਾਂ ਮਿਲਦੀ ਹੈ।

Service in the midst of the world is the path to honour.

Common questions

Is dasvandh compulsory?

Dasvandh is a long-standing Sikh tradition of giving a tenth for the common good. It is best understood as a willing commitment rather than a tax, given according to one's means.

Does Sikhi say anything about ambition and wealth?

Sikhi does not reject earning well. It asks that wealth be earned honestly, shared generously, and never allowed to replace remembrance of the Divine or care for others.

Can I work in any profession?

Sikh teachings focus on honesty and not harming others rather than listing professions. If your work requires dishonesty or conflicts with the Sikh code of conduct (for example trading in tobacco or intoxicants), reflect carefully and seek advice from your Sangat.

How do I find time for Nitnem with long working hours?

Many Sikhs listen to Nitnem while travelling, wake a little earlier, or recite shorter Banis on very busy days while building towards a fuller routine. Consistency matters more than perfection.

Sources & further reading

  1. Sikh Rehat Maryada, SGPC
  2. Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Ang 1245
  3. Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Ang 141